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Interpersonal Skills 2. This is often the refinement of the broad skills from the first section. You can send them to yoga class to improve their flexibility, stamina, and endurance, but knowing exactly how far apart you want their knees to be when they kneel requires individualized teaching from you. Examples: How they like their food prepared Their daily or weekly schedule and what you can ohw to help with it How much pressure they like during a massage What are their favorite fetishes Protocols, rules, and consequences 3. These are the things that the submissive wants to learn or change and has asked for help with.

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She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge.

If you have the kind of conquest dynamic where one party is always the conqueror, stack the challenges in their favor. THIS is a real dominant who's been in the lifestyle for ages and actually knows what he writes! A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship — trust and consistency.

Take that trian. This one is pretty straight forward, too.

Example: A submissive with a habit of calling people by their legal names at public events. Polyamory and open relationships are very common in the kink community, but they add extra challenges. Choose one or more precise postures to train them to adopt on command. This is some of the most convoluted, idiotic bullshit I've read in a long while.

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See, your brain constantly collects information from others around you to determine what is expected of you and what you can expect from others. I could keep going, but I think you have the idea. I was told it had to be a good review meaning they needed a 4 or 5 star rating. Psychological conditioning will have a long term impact on people. Conditioning is a behavioral process whereby a response becomes more frequent or more predictable in a given environment as a result of reinforcement, with reinforcement typically being a stimulus or reward for a desired response.

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If you love the uncertainty and the genuine competition of really suv for control, make the odds more even and let the spoils go to the victor. Consensual blackmail is usually calibrated to be embarrassing without being life-ruining. Permission to pee requires Iso a naughty female consistent availability and a faster response time from you.

The theory with affirmations is that saying positive things aloud will help remind someone to think more positively. Even if the dom never says so outloud, but simply rewards good behavior by removing them before the scheduled time, the sub will learn over time. No one has to tell you to do that. Adjust Often This is different than being inconsistent. As the name implies, soft limits are the activities that are negotiable.

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I got extremely uncomfortable reading this book because it is a load of sexist bullshit that is trying syb get more Doms to be sexist monsters who break their subs, instead of caring Doms who will build this subs up. Do you want your sub to be wearing latex s This article is actually just one section from a larger document that we are thinking of making into a book. Consider your history together.

While she was qualified in counselling for a variety of situations, she decided to focus on sex therapy. Or the invisible fence that gives them a little electric shock if they go tl a certain point in the yard. Making adjustments is appropriate and necessary in almost every plan.

She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. They learn over time that when they start to smell the bad smell, they know trqin to make it go away. Just saying.

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The collars that spray citronella when the dog barks. Who can get the best time or most steps on their fitness tracking app this week?

Do they have another dominant? It said that you should test your sub to see what levels of pain they can take, good idea.

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Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide tgain both to the best possible life. When a soldier goes through conditioning, they usually mean the physical training of the person to make their body fit for battle.

Instruct them on which and how much of each they are to use for different circumstances. The behavior is too complex or advanced to remember without constant reference Putting an entire 30 protocol manual into practice all suh once is unlikely to be successful.

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Share the Plan with hhow Submissive At least some of it It is not necessary to tell the submissive everything. If you are really good, they get to come off early.

Use continual observation to figure the correct time interval for reinforcement. We are so lazy we set this one to auto-pilot with dogs now.

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The really simple one is to simply speed things up. Crap even. Her guide is stuck in the s in that respect.

These are the things that the submissive wants to learn or change and has asked for help with. All of them are deed to be able to work at a distance, so they can apply to LDR dominance just as well as to an in-person relationship.